If you catch your partner cheating and you have decided not to forgive them, just leave them and continue with your life. There are a lot of other people waiting to love you and respect you. Catching a partner cheating is not the end of life.
This thing of filming and/or beating up your partner and/or their other partners they cheat with is not the right solution. When you film and expose them you only bring shame on yourself and it shows how weak your heart and mind is.
Lets not forget, there comes a time, when you have to put feelings aside and decide to forgive your partner, to raise kids, for instance, you become foolish and in the end, how do you live with someone you exposed? How do you enjoy a private part you exposed to the public? How do you explain the make up with the person you shamed publicly?
To those with kids, what message are you sending to them?
Understand, every person can cheat at any time. If you have not caught your partner or if you have not been caught, it’s just a matter of time. Everyone has it in them, they can cheat, they have cheated and they will cheat. Make peace with it and prepare your mind so that when it happens to you, you don’t go about parading your partner to Facebook, we don’t even know what made them cheat in the first place. Ooh, there are always reasons.
Also to people in relationships, please, cheat respectfully. There are a lot of people looking up to you, including your partner. Be considerate and respectful with your cheating because your partner’s pride and ego depends on how you carry yourself.